You Can Always Call Home

I’ll be the first to admit that I don’t know everything. Whenever I have questions about literally anything, I call home and talk to my mom and dad. My entire life they have offered advice about what they would do in my situation, and I’ve always found it helpful. I wouldn’t be who I am today without my parents.

No matter what, we can always call home. Prayer is an option that is always available. It doesn’t matter what religion you belong to. God is the same. He is our Father, your Father. He loves you and wants to be a part of your life. You can ask Him for anything. He will help you.

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No matter how far away we are, communication is always possible in today’s technological world. I can call my wife, my parents, anyone, from thousands of miles away. Just the same, there are no limitations when it comes to communing with God.

Having a Father in Heaven who is all knowing is a resource that blesses my life every day. I am who I am because of God. I was created in His image. He influences my life because I pray to him. There is no greater feeling than seeing Him work in my life, and knowing that He has heard my prayers.

 

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Understanding God’s Perspective

Every once in a while, life throws you an experience to give you a small glimpse into the perspective that God has as our Father.

I recently had such an experience. My son was crying. He was clearly tired, and fighting sleep. As a father, I could see his need for sleep, and wanted to do what I could to help him.

As I held him in my arms and rocked and bounced him, he eventually gave in to sleep.

From a parent’s perspective, we can see and understand the needs of our children. Based on the experiences of our lives, we know what is best for them in their current situation and how to best help them.

God has the same experiences with us. He sees us struggle, takes us in His arms, and comforts us until our needs are met enough to carry on.

Having a child is life-changing. That’s definitely stating the obvious. I have felt feelings of joy and love far greater than I could have ever dreamed of. I can only imagine the feelings of love God feels for all of His children.

Next time you are facing tougher times, remember God is closer than ever. He wants you to succeed. He wants you to feel at peace. He wants you to feel His love. Never give up on God.

“But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.” -Isaiah 40:31

“…for I will go before your face. I will be on your right hand and on your left, and my Spirit shall be in your hearts, and mine angels round about you, to bear you up.” -Doctrine and Covenants 84:88

Living In A Tent

What are you willing to sacrifice to follow God?

One of the most important lessons I have learned so far is that sacrifice brings blessings. When we make sacrifices to follow God, He not only recognizes it, but rewards us generously.

There is a verse in the second chapter of the Book of Mormon that, until recently, didn’t make any sense to me. I had no idea why it was even recorded. Most every member of the Church knows this verse, and there are many jokes that are made in reference to it. But thanks to Al Fox and her beautiful teachings, my eyes are opened.

“And my father dwelt in a tent.” – 1 Nephi 2:15 (Book of Mormon)

The author did not record this historical fact just because. There is deeper meaning to be understood. In order to understand this seven letter sentence, you must start with background and context.

Though not much information is recorded about Lehi’s life, mainly due to the lost manuscript during the time in which the Book of Mormon was being translated, a great characteristic of Lehi can be deduced within the first chapters of Book of Mormon.

He was a prophet of God.

He lived in Jerusalem for most of his life. See 1 Nephi 1:4 (Book of Mormon)

He owned property. See 1 Nephi 1:7 (Book of Mormon)

He possessed items of wealth/good fortune. See 1 Nephi 2:4 (Book of Mormon)

“And it came to pass that the Lord commanded my father, even in a dream, that he should take his family and depart into the wilderness.

“And it came to pass that he was obedient unto the word of the Lord, wherefore he did as the Lord commanded him.

“And it came to pass that he departed into the wilderness. And he left his house, and the land of his inheritance, and his gold, and his silver, and his precious things, and took nothing with him, save it were his family, and provisions, and tents, and departed into the wilderness.” -1 Nephi 2:2-4, (Book of Mormon) emphasis added.

This man left all of his earthly possessions behind him excepting the bare minimum. Nothing else mattered. He had been given a personal commandment from God to take his family and get them out of town, and he obeyed.

He went from living in what was probably a high class home to a tent.

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The Book of Mormon record very often describes the murmuring of those who don’t get their way. However, it is noteworthy that there is no record of Lehi complaining about this commandment to leave. In fact, after the first three days of travel, Lehi built an altar and gave thanks to God. (See 1 Nephi 2:7)

The effects of Lehi’s sacrifice are still being felt today. Anyone who reads the Book of Mormon and studies the Church can come to understand the special blessings associated with this man’s sacrifice.

Are you willing to make sacrifices for God? Do you know and love God enough to drop everything, leave everything, all based on a knowledge that only you have?

When we follow God, when we live His commandments, He blesses us more than we could ever possibly imagine. There is no doubt that Lehi’s tent has been upgraded to a Heavenly mansion.

As I have gained more appreciation for what I initially thought was a meaningless verse of scripture, I am committed to finding more ways to sacrifice my life for God’s work, because nothing else is more important.

Taking on a New Role

Last night my life changed. Forever.

My wife and I welcomed our first child, a son, into the world last night. It was an experience that is beyond the reach of words. Until he was born, all I could feel was anxiety, excitement, and anticipation. Today I feel happy, love, and of course, exhaustion.

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Today my mindset is different, however. This little boy is my son. My son. I always knew that, but now the fact has hit me, and started to sink in.

I am no longer just a husband. I have a new role, and new responsibilities.

As a father, it is up to me to make sure this little guy knows the important things in life. Obviously that means the essentials – sports, good music, and all other things man-related. But, my responsibilities go much deeper.

He needs to come to know and understand who he is.

This new addition to our family is not just my son. He is a son of God. The God of heaven and earth has given my wife and I the responsibility of raising one of His own. That’s a big deal. As he grows up, he needs to learn about his identity and potential. Not just potential in life, but in the life to come as well. This little miracle deserves everything I have to offer him as a father.

How I look forward to watching him grow, and teaching him all I can. Ultimately, he will make his own choices, but that’s the beautiful part of life. We are free.

There is no feeling like this, not that I have ever felt in my life. Being a father is a special experience, and I couldn’t trade it for anything.

Which Way Do You Face?

Conference has come and gone, and it’s time to review notes and read through the text and soak it all in.

Each of us have talks that speak to us. Elder Robbins’ “Which Way Do You Face?” really stood out to me. There are so many way to relate this to our lives.

Direction is everything. We use compasses and innumerable technological resources to make sure we are traveling in the right direction.

No matter which direction we are traveling, we can always be focused on the direction we face.

I strive to live my life in a way that always faces toward my Savior and my Heavenly Father. My goals in life are focused on returning to them. When decision time comes, I’m not just considering my options. I consider my family, and the effect the decision’s consequences have on my relationship with not only them, but with my Savior.

The great scriptural heroes always knew which way they faced. One of my favorite examples is during the prophet King Benjamin’s address to his people. Everyone came to hear him, and they came as families.

“And they pitched their tents round about the temple, every man having his tent with the door thereof towards the temple…” – Mosiah 2:6 (Book of Mormon)

The temple is the House of the Lord. It symbolizes the Savior and is a representation of His love for us. As these people faced the temple, they faced Christ.

Which way do you face?

We can travel in any of the cardinal directions we need to, but just because we are traveling one way, doesn’t mean we can’t face another. The world has different goals and faces another way. The ways of the world are not in harmony with the standards of God. When we make mistakes and lose sight of our goal, we can always do an about-face and re-focus.

Living with a focus on God, and facing Him, brings peace and joy in to my life and the life of my family. Following God’s standards keeps the world’s influence away, and provides a greater perspective for our daily lives.

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